Category Archives: Self-improvement

Sweetness

  Of all the lovely qualities you can posses, sweetness is the most universally moving one. A sweet smile draws others closer to you and a sweet nature will help you be a blessing and a treasure to the world. … Continue reading

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Fear or Love?

  Fear is a strong motivator for most people. They get to work on time because they fear being reprimanded, they wear what’s in fashion because they fear being ridiculed, they hide their more controversial ideas because they fear being … Continue reading

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How a habit is changed

First, you recognize what you have been doing wrong. This analysis is often done after experiencing a failure or after seeing the same bad habit, but worse, in another. For example, you smoke and find yourself heading to the store … Continue reading

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Bringing out the best

  When you look at another person, what are you looking for? If you give people the opportunity to talk about themselves, they offer a variety of hints, but not every person picks up the right clues. Some people find … Continue reading

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One word to avoid when you want to be influential

One word I hear far too often is the word “should”. He should want this, she should do that, they should say such and such… How boring! It makes me want to ask why all these people are supposed to … Continue reading

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Mercy

When you are in power, you have the option to harm others. You also have the opportunity to show mercy. When I feed birds in the winter, I show mercy. When I offer a fair price to a desperate merchant, … Continue reading

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Refinement

There is a certain charm in natural, earthy things, but sometimes a bit of refinement can keep something from being coarse and common. When something is refined,  rough edges are removed from it and it is polished and cared for … Continue reading

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Fascinating Womanhood 1922

Quite many women are aware of Andelin’s version of Fascinating Womanhood but few know the source of these secrets. The original pamphlets can be found here. I personally prefer the 1922 version of Fascinating Womanhood, as it is more timeless. … Continue reading

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You don’t have to be conceited to have dignity

To have a realistic sense of self and a healthy character, dignity and humility must be combined in your person. This can seem daunting because we often see pride people as being a bit conceited, feeling better than others, and … Continue reading

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