Category Archives: Dignity


  Of all the lovely qualities you can posses, sweetness is the most universally moving one. A sweet smile draws others closer to you and a sweet nature will help you be a blessing and a treasure to the world. … Continue reading

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Wardrobe for a mature autumn

I received a reader’s request for style tips for mature women:  I have begun to almost live in jeans/slacks and want to be more feminine. Many of your suggestions seem to be for younger people. I am 62, very slim, … Continue reading

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How to comfort a man

There always comes a time in a man’s life when he experiences loss or hurt. Hurt comes in many forms; he may be physically hurt or he may lose a person who is dear to him, a promotion he was … Continue reading

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How to make men want to protect you

Testosterone instills in a man the intense desire to be a winner. If a man fought hard to get a desirable and elusive woman, he cannot stand for other men to win her as well. Imagine winning a gold medal … Continue reading

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When you are in power, you have the option to harm others. You also have the opportunity to show mercy. When I feed birds in the winter, I show mercy. When I offer a fair price to a desperate merchant, … Continue reading

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There is a certain charm in natural, earthy things, but sometimes a bit of refinement can keep something from being coarse and common. When something is refined,  rough edges are removed from it and it is polished and cared for … Continue reading

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Push and pull

To create the ideal circumstances for a man to fall in love, we must cause him to fantasize about us frequently. If we want to learn how to create fantasies in the minds of others, we must first study what … Continue reading

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You don’t have to be conceited to have dignity

To have a realistic sense of self and a healthy character, dignity and humility must be combined in your person. This can seem daunting because we often see pride people as being a bit conceited, feeling better than others, and … Continue reading

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The one thing you need to be treated right

Boundaries Human interactions, at a certain level, are like a negotiation. The other party makes an offer, you accept it or reject it, and in the latter case he may either make a better offer or let you walk away. … Continue reading

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Look at the pineapple on this pedestal; it is clean, protected and well presented. Now imagine a pineapple on the ground, exposed and covered in filth. Which one would you be most likely to buy and eat? Which one would … Continue reading

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