You dont have to be perfect to be charming, feminine and seductive. Imagine a beautiful painting, but dusty and a bit damaged. Or look at the patched bear above. Would you not still be able to love it a lot?
If you are chubby, of course losing some weight would make you more attractive, but you need not put your seductive life on hold until you are slim. Just look at how you can be a cute, lovely girl with round and dimpled cheeks in huggable dresses. A girl who is at a healthy weight may have an easier time looking sexy, but a plump girl has an edge when it comes to looking cute. The soft roundness of a chubby girl reminds people of a baby. Why not enhance that cuteness and enjoy it?
If you are a retired lady, it’s not too late to be feminine. Attracting men and charming people in general isn’t just useful if you want to start a family, it is also fun and worthwhile for its own sake. When you make yourself pretty and take care of yourself, you feel happy, and when you are a sweet, patient, charming older lady, you share your happiness and wisdom with the world, making it a better place for everyone.